Whatever your personal situation, we all have needs and desires, and in my opinion, as long as it involves consenting adults and no one is being hurt, people should be free to explore these, free of judgment. Technology has improved out lives in so many ways, and online dating is just one of them. Whatever you are looking for (within reason) you can find an app or site which will allow you to connect with likeminded people looking for the same kind of thing.
Maybe you are looking for bdsm contacts, maybe you are looking for the love of your life. Whatever it is, there will be a place online for you. By using a site like My BDSM Hookups, you can not only connect with these like minded people for physical connections, but also for mental ones. You can be part of a community which is especially important if you are still discovering what kind of things you like. You can find a safe space online to reach out, ask questions and work out what you want.
Some people like to be dominated, some prefer to dominate others. You might find out that other people are into things that you may never have thought of, but actually want to try. Perhaps you want to be or have a mistress, perhaps you want a slave.
By using sites like this you can quickly and easily filter out people who aren’t looking for the same thing, thus saving you a lot of time and effort. You can focus your search and get specific. Whatever you are looking for however there is no excuse under the sun to not stay safe, particularly when looking for and taking part in online dating and these niche endeavours and connections. Male or female you should always carry condoms. There is no excuse not to use them and practice safe sex, as this is quite literally your health and your life we are talking about. The minute someone says they prefer not to use them, then you immediately walk away. You might be getting carried away, and in the heat of the moment think its ok, but this really is a decision which should never be taken in the heat of the moment, or if you’ve had too much to drink. Anyone who says they don’t use them is an idiot, and you deserve better!
The other key thing to remember, especially if you are looking for no strings attached fun, is to ensure that there are ground rules, perhaps even a safe word, which all parties know of and agree to stick to. For hookups you are unlikely to have your encounters on neutral ground (like when meeting in a restaurant on a typical first date) but make sure someone knows where you are going and with who and that you will check in with them by a certain time. It is highly unlikely that a friend will need to raise an alarm, but it really is better to be safe than sorry!