Is online dating for you?

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Like anything in life, you aren’t going to know unless you try it. Gone are the days when internet dating was looked down upon or seen as the thing for people who are desperate only. More and more people are turning to a variety of paid and free dating websites to start the hunt for their future spouse or long term partner.

The choice is so vast, it is sometimes hard to know where to start. I would suggest thinking about what is most important to you and searching for a site in that niche or with that target audience. For example, if your faith is a deal breaker, then you might want to look for a Christian or Muslim dating site. Whatever you are looking for, just look online for dating sites UK in that niche. Just remember that the less strict you are in your requirements, the wider the range of people that you can possibly meet. Widening your search radius by a few miles or kilometres, or extending your search age range by a few years either way can increase your searchable pool of people so incredibly.

Once you’ve found a site that you want to join, you can create your profile. Just remember to use recent and flattering photos, but don’t use filters or frames that mean the photos don’t accurately represent you. It’s fine to choose a nice picture, but if you don’t look anything like that in real life, when you do meet not only is the other person likely to be disappointed, but also they will start to think that if they can’t trust you about that, then what else are you being dishonest about?

Communicating online gives you time to think about replies to messages and so sometimes it can create a persona which isn’t an accurate representation of the person who you are in a face to face or “real life”  meeting. This is why sometimes a meeting with someone who you have been communicating online with for quite some time can seem disappointing or an anticlimax. This is one of the many reasons that dating experts recommend meeting people in person as soon as is possibly after opening communicating, so you don’t spend ages messaging someone who in real life you just can’t communicate with. It’s not that it’s a deliberate thing on either side, but unfortunately that’s just the way it is sometimes.

Online dating can be really fun, and an enjoyable way to meet new people, but it can also be scary. It’s so hard to not get nervous and worried, but the more relaxed you are, the easier it will be, and the more likely you are to find someone you can click with. Just remember to always think about your safety before sharing personal information with anyone and of course, your personal safety when arranging to meet anyone face to face. Key things to remember are to always meet in a public place and have at least one person who knows where you are and who you are with. Make sure you check in with them regularly, or at least once you are home.

 

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